The Law Of Attraction

Unfortunately, I did not post last night as I was enjoying watching The Hunger Games on television.

I couldn’t sleep last night, & I don’t know why – I feel that I have a lot of things on my mind (don’t we all?)

One thing that I need to remember is: Negative thoughts attract negative experiences.

I started watching The Secret – I get shivers everytime I watch it! My most favourite films ever!

The Secret is something that I recommend everyone watch – it truly can change your life.

It is all in the power of The Law of Attraction.

The law of attraction is the name given to the maxim “like attracts like” which in New Thought philosophy is used to sum up the idea that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts a person brings positive or negative experiences into their life. This belief is based upon the idea that people and their thoughts are both made from “pure energy”, and the belief that like energy attracts like energy.

Law of Attraction Affirmations can take the form of internal thoughts or spoken words, but they can also be represented visually. Regardless of how you choose to use them, you can design them to reflect your vision of how you want your life to change. For example, many people have great success speaking affirming words into the mirror before going to work, or stating “today is going to be a great day” to infuse themselves with positivity upon waking. When used frequently enough, affirmations can enhance your use of the Law of Attraction by helping to reshape the core beliefs and assumptions that may be holding you back. They promote consistency, optimism and intense focus on the future you want to create.

Further, visual affirmations are useful ways of reminding yourself to stay connected to positive thoughts throughout the day. A sticky note on the bathroom cabinet, the fridge or the front door can keep you in check if your confidence is wavering, and a “dream board” can be designed to represent your desires and aims in pictorial form. We’ll explain a wide range of ways in which you can use affirmations and teach you how to design them to accurately reflect your underlying goals.

Effects of The Law Of Attraction

Health

A core claim by New Thought authors is that our thoughts directly influence our health, and that this is due to the law of attraction. They believe that worry, fear, stress or other negative thoughts make people sick, while positive thoughts of wellness or love can keep people healthy and even cure illnesses. This can be seen in scientific studies where the placebo effect takes place. Those who receive fake sugar pills tend to become healthier due to the mere fact that they think they are getting treatment when they aren’t. [They also claim that an important part of maintaining health and of curing illness is to be able to visualize yourself as being healthy.

Financial

It is claimed that if someone consistently thinks prosperous thoughts then irrespective of their actual situation they will experience prosperity in the future because ‘like attracts like’. Conversely if a person consistently thinks that they are poor then that will be their future experience. One example used by Lisa Nichols in the film The Secret is as follows: “Every time you look inside your mail expecting to see a bill, guess what? It’ll be there. Each day you go out dreading the bill, you’re never expecting anything great, you’re thinking about debt, you’re expecting debt. So debt must show up…..it showed up, because the law of attraction is always being obedient to your thoughts”. Feeling happy and grateful for the money you already have, is claimed to be the fastest way to bring more money into your life.

Relationships

Law of attraction proponents claim that it affects our relationships because whatever we focus on we experience more of. So if an individual focuses on another person’s good qualities then they experience more of those, where as if they focus on what they dislike about that person then those will be the characteristics of that person that they experience. They also claim that if you can visualize that a certain person is being nice to you, then you will be attracting experiences that match those thoughts.

Ambitions

It is claimed that when someone visualizes clearly and in detail what they want to achieve, and focuses upon that image, that they set in motion through the law of attraction a chain of events that eventually culminates in the materialization of that vision. Charles Haanel says in The Master Key System, “You must see the picture more and more complete, see the detail, and, as the details begin to unfold the ways and means for bringing it into manifestation will develop. One thing will lead to another. Thought will lead to action, action will develop methods, methods will develop friends, and friends will bring about circumstances, and, finally, the third step, or Materialization, will have been accomplished.

While affirmations and visualizations are two of the most important tools at your disposal when working with the Law of Attraction, they are far from the only techniques that you can use to create the life you desire. For example, there are Law of Attraction exercises that specifically target negative feelings and help you work on dismissing them, and ways of stopping self-undermining thoughts before they can emerge and take hold. Meanwhile, there are ways to transform your living space to better reflect your goals and to inspire an optimistic mind set, and social methods that enhance your communication and help you to spread positivity wherever you go.

As well as offering practical guides to using a wide range of generally applicable exercises that enable you to use the Law of Attraction in your quest to get what you want, we will provide details of more specific exercises that target specific domains. After all, the exercise you might use in a search for prosperity differ from those that lead you towards romance, and from ones that focus on career goals. We’ll also give you suggestions for ways to create your own exercises based on some of the affirmations and visualizations you’ve already developed.

Try it! Give it a go & you will see a difference… The pen is is in your hands, your the author of your life – you are in control.

15 Things To Give Up If You Want To Be Happy

  1. Give up your need to always be right // Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind? – Wayne Dyer
  2. Give up your need for control // By letting go, it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. When you try & try, the world is beyond winning. – Lao Tzu
  3. Give up blaming others // A man can fail many times, but he isn’t a failure until he begins to blame somebody else. – John Burroughs
  4. Give up your self-defeating self-talk // The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly. Used wrongly, however, it becomes very destructive. – Eckhart Tolle
  5. Give up your limiting beliefs // A belief is not an idea held by the mind; it is an idea that holds the mind. – Elly Roselle
  6. Give up complaining // You can complain becauses roses have thorns, or you can rejoice because thorns have roses. – Ziggy
  7. Give up the luxury of criticism // Spend so much time improving yourself that you have no time left to criticise others. -Christian D. Larsen
  8. Give up your need to impress others // Don’t try to impress others. Let them have the fun of impressing you. -James R. Fisher Jr
  9. Give up your resistance to change // Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there only walls. – Joseph Campbell
  10. Give up labels // The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know anything about. – Wayne Dyer
  11. Give up on your fears // The only thing we have to fear is fear itself. – Franklin Delano Roosevelt
  12. Give up your excuses // 99% of failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses. – George Washington Carver
  13. Give up the past // Forget the mistakes of the past and press on the greater achievments of the future, – Christian D. Larsen
  14. Give up attachment // The wise individual doesn’t get too attached to any of life’s pleasures, knowing that wonderful silence is hard at work proving it’s bad for him. – Bill Vaughan
  15. Give up living your life to other people’s expectations // The world is a mirror and reflects back your expectations. What you get is what you see. You create your own reality. – Denis Waitley